***Please put EXACTLY what you want on your mug/candle/back of gift note as per the personalization section instructions. If you do not number your personalization, I will add it to the back of your gift card. If you leave your personalization blank, your order will arrive as per the listing photo (without names or dates). If you WANT the featured phrase for your mug AND more: PLEASE put your ENTIRE request (featured phrase AND remainder of customization), along with spacing (front/back/bottom) in the personalization section. ***DO you need this by a certain date? I do not guarantee delivery dates with STANDARD shipping - please upgrade to EXPRESS if you need this for a/by a specific date!! SPOON colors: I am sold out of several colors - I will provide you with what I have available! I am not able to meet your request re: spoon color at this time :) ***BEFORE YOU ORDER: Sending to a friend or relative? PLEASE make sure the DELIVERY address is THEIR address (this can be edited as you check out - if you are not sure how to do this, PUT YOUR DESIRED shipping address in the NOTES TO SELLER). *** ANY changes to your order (address, gift note, mug phrase, candle phrase, etc) made AFTER your order has been submitted, will require a $5 fee, as this system does not allow me to edit your order after the fact. This long distance best friend gift is the perfect best friend or bff gift for friend! Customize it, add your note request and have it shipped directly to them on your behalf. This listing features: Mug Only- ONE ceramic enamel-look campfire 15 oz mug, hand inked, one letter at a time in this featured phrase (or your custom request) Candle Only- ONE 8oz. hand poured beeswax and soy jar candle with custom label: PLEASE PUT YOUR LABEL REQUEST IN THE NOTES TO SELLER. Complete Gift Set- ONE mug ONE candle ONE ceramic tea spoon ONE "ground coffee breath" handmade, non-plastic lip balm in seasonal flavors, with cardboard kraft tube ONE mini test tube of local ground coffee ONE muslin bag of matches. Complete set + BOX - add on a kraft gift box! Perfect for gifting. Please let me know if you have a custom request for your mug or candle! Each gift set will arrive with a custom gift note and your handwritten note of choice (please let me know what you would like written on your gift note note in the notes to seller). The front of each gift note cannot be modified. Shred not included, your lovelies will be packaged to maximize their safety during shipping. Mugs: Microwave safe, handwash inside only recommended. Everything I make is made with love, patience, and a glass of wine...nothing in life is perfect, but I strive to be. Please expect these lovelies to have mini flaws that make them even more special. Please view me as the stark opposite of Target (even though I fucking love Target). ***Please note! Mugs are hand inked and as such can be harmed if scratched, scrubbed, rubbed, etc...handwash INSIDE only is strongly recommended. ***ARE you purchasing a mug only? Please choose a random scent for your candle as an option. Don't worry - we won't send you one if you have chosen "mug only" :) Personalization: Please put your request for your mug (specify exactly what you would like on your mug), candle and note card in the personalization section. If no personalization is provided, your order will appear as shown in the listing (with names removed). How are these mugs made? I hand stamp, one letter at a time, one mug at a time, your desired phrase on the mug with a specialized ink. I then heat set and glaze the surface to protect the ink. This glaze is applied by hand and can have some uneven layers and texture to it - contributing the handmade nature of your custom piece. I try to limit the glaze application to the parts of your mug with the ink on it only. How do I care for my mug? I recommend hand washing the inside of your mug only and to refrain from scrubbing, rubbing, soaking, scratching at your inked surface on the outside (regardless of how soft your cloth/finger/whatever is). This is abrasive and can damage your ink. If you need to wash the outside of your mug, please try to prevent food or drink from drying before washing. Let soap and water run down the outside of your mug without rubbing/scrubbing/scratching at the ink and air dry. Care instructions are included with every mug. Do you need a dishwasher safe mug? I can offer a sublimated option with your custom phrase, BUT the style of the mug and font will be different from the mugs shown (the mugs shown cannot be created as dishwasher safe). Contact me if you would like this substitution!***SPOONS: Spoons come in a variety of colors, such as white, ivory, blue and coral. Colors are selected according to what is in stock for your order. Please let me know if you have a color preference and I will try to accommodate your request (in fact, let me know your top 3 color choices!). If I am out of stock of your request, I will include what I have available :) Candles are made with a unique 100% soy and beeswax blend to offer the benefits of both materials. Enjoy pet friendly, vegan, clean plant oils, balanced with the slow-burning and toxin-reduction properties of beeswax. Each candle is hand poured and scented with essential oils. Only recyclable containers are used (love ya, earth).CANDLE color: PLEASE check the other listings in this shop to see the range of candle colors offered. These are scent specific.